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Only ‘Yes’ Means Yes: Sometimes What You Think is Consensual Sex is Actually...

Shannon Ridgway and Sandra Kim offer a clear guide to understanding and obtaining consent from your partner. What is consensual sex? Common knowledge states that it’s two adults who willingly agree to...

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The Healthy Sex Talk: Teaching Kids Consent, Ages 1-21

A list of parenting action items, created in the hope that we can raise a generation of children who have less rape and sexual assault in their lives. — – RSVP for #StopSexism Weekly Calls – The...

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Heads of the Hydra or, The End of Rape

It takes more than education on consent to stop rape, but it is a vital chapter in a new story of what we all want: a world without rape. “During the fight, every time Heracles chopped off one of the...

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A Father-Son Talk About Rape and Rehtaeh Parsons

How can we help prevent sexual assault in the future? Teach every child not to rape. Zach Rosenberg and his son are starting early. “Because that’s rape,” I answered, matter-of-factly. “What’s rape?”...

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Is There Abuse in the Kink Community?

  Danielle Paradis and Dylan Richards explore the ways in which rape can be prevented with in kink and BDSM communities. Danielle: I had always thought that kink held the golden standard when it came...

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Challenging ‘Boys Will Be Boys’

  Joanna Schroeder insists that dismissing boys’ bad behavior as a natural part of being male is dangerous for both boys and girls.  – I’ve always been a guy’s girl. Maybe it’s because I have older...

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This Awesome Sex-Ed Talk Will Leave You Laughing (and Informed)

Yes, this is about sex, so it’s a bit NSFW. Meet Thomas “TomSka” Ridgewell, the host of this amazing sex talk, and the guy we all wish we’d had teaching our SexEd classes. He’s funny, charming,...

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7 A’s of Hooking Up

Jamie Utt’s 7 A’s of Hooking Up from Fivel Rothberg on Vimeo. – After a Georgia Tech fraternity brother wrote a letter entitled “luring your rapebait“, Jamie Utt responded with his own list of keys...

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My Covert Mission to Raise Boys Who Balance Empowerment with Empathy

 Joanna Schroeder wonders how to raise sensitive boys in a society that empowers them to abuse. –  Galit Breen, a mother of a teen daughter, wrote a beautiful essay called “Why I’m Not Raising a Good...

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7 Reasons Why Your Child Should Never Be Forced to Hug Anyone (Even Relatives!)

Do you really want to teach your children they don’t have control over their own bodies? (Content Warnings: incest, rape, and sexual violence) Two of my good friends had their first baby late this...

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Sorry Parents, But Having ‘The Sex Talk’ is No Longer Enough

  Your kids are looking to YOU to teach them how to feel about sex and their bodies. Don’t let them down. By Joanna Schroeder I learned the truth about where babies came from when I was 10 years old....

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A Simple Script About Consent for Dads to Use With Their Sons

Embed from Getty Images — In an ideal world, sex and consent would be completely equal between men and women. Men and women would approach sexual relations the same way, and they would ask and give...

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Modern Dating and How to Fix the Aziz Ansari Problem

Embed from Getty Images — There is such a whirlwind of topics flying around relating to dating these days that it’s nearly impossible to figure out which one to tackle first. But after reading the...

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Sex Education

Embed from Getty Images — On a March morning in the spring of 1986, our teacher, Mrs. Boykin, lined us up at the door, our fifth-grade class making a single column along the wall from the door to the...

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Little Talks: Instilling Good Ethics into Our Boys

Embed from Getty Images — When my daughter was starting her teen years, my wife and I had many talks with her about dating etiquette. As a father, I was scared. I remember being a teen boy. I remember...

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I Won’t Tell My 4-Year-Old Son To ‘Man Up.’ Not Now. Not Ever.

Embed from Getty Images I won’t tell my 4-year-old son to “man up.” My male neighbor, however, seems to think differently. He not only thought it, he decided my son and I should know it. My son had...

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Practicing What We Preach With Boys

— Since my son has been able to talk, we’ve been having conversations about what it’s like to be a child in a world run by adults. In kindergarten, shortly after he learned to write, he started working...

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Queer Couples Talk About Consent

her conversations of hope concentr 00:01 basically somebody going stop it and 00:03 somebody going okay my name is Priss 00:09 my name is Sancha and this is my puppy 00:12 we’ve been together a couple...

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8 Things Dads Should NEVER Say to Their Daughters | Dad University

Being a dad of a daughter is special. There is no other relationship like it. However, we need to be careful with what we say to our daughters. The way they see the world is highly influenced by our...

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Love, Sex Etc. Live Call Recording: Consent

Every Monday, we talk about Relationships, Sex & Love, Etc. on a LIVE call with our community at The Good Men Project. We call them ConvoCasts — they are like Podcasts but you are in them! This is...

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